I identify as pansexual and have been flirting with a guy I like for quite a while, and he's flirting back. I want to tell him that I'm pansexual, but I'm not sure how to. I've been out to everyone close to me for a while now, but I've never had to come out to a crush. He's not homophobic, but it's new territory for me. Do you have any advice?

Well, he’s not homophobic. I wouldn’t worry too much, he just might get a bit confused as to what Pansexual is seeing as it seems not many people really know about it {Though it seems it’s getting more and more known now!}

Just tell him you’re not straight, that you’re Pansexual. And if he asks you what that means well then tell him what it means of course. Nothing else to it, really! c:

I am pansexual and I have a crush on one of my closet friend {who is a girl and bi and I am a girl} wondering if you have any advice on asking her out thanks a bunch. Your blog makes me feel so much better about my sexuality and is wonderful

Glad you enjoy this blog~ c: Love your Toothless icon by the way~<3

As for asking your friend out, oh goodness… That’s always tough to do no matter who you’re asking out. It’ll nerve-wracking no matter what! 
You could try asking her while you’re hanging out. But be SURE to ask her face-to-face and not over some social network or texting. Assuming this is a real life friend of yours of course.
Just start it off by, ‘Hey, I have a question —’ Or something like that. And it’s okay to stutter and fumble over your words, and even chicken out a few times. Just take your time with asking her and don’t rush it!

my GSA is talking about Pansexuality this week and I was wondering if you knew of any TV characters or celebrities that are pansexual. I'm having a hard time finding this.



Unfortunately, I do not know of any celebrities or some such that are Pansexual. :c Most are either gay, bi or straight.

Captain Jack Harkness of Doctor Who/Torchwood is implied to be sort of pansexual. It’s never given a name as such, but he is very open sexually and flirts with EVERYONE.

Oh, thanks! c:

I hope ilovestarkidtoomuch see’s this, it may help them!

my GSA is talking about Pansexuality this week and I was wondering if you knew of any TV characters or celebrities that are pansexual. I'm having a hard time finding this.

Unfortunately, I do not know of any celebrities or some such that are Pansexual. :c Most are either gay, bi or straight.

Great blog you have here! You might also enjoy the one I've recently started on here as well. Feel free to check it out.

Thank you! I’m glad people enjoy this blog~<3 

Also, followers~! Go check this blog out. c:
It’s NSFW though, so if you don’t want to see explicit things don’t look!

I am sorta young as well and I'm scared people will think it's just a phase or that ppl will get un comfterable in the locker room or such..: any tips how i can convince ppl that just bcuz I'm pan. i won't stare at them in the locker room?

Sorry for the possibly late answer and for any typos I might make. My laptop broke and I am now on my iPod.

If they think its a phase, just kindly tell them it is not.
As for the locker room problem, just tell them “It’s not your body I care about, so I won’t stare. I have absolutely no resin or want to state at you as you change just because I’m Pansexual.” Or something along those lines~

I'm quiet shy of me and don't like opening up, do you have a good suggestion on how I can come out with being pansexual? I'm scared that people will not understand or dislike me for it...

All you really have to do is tell them. Start with telling your parents or a close friend. Though it’s also good to know their views on different sexualities first.

Do they accept Gay/Bi/Pan/Etc. people or do they not?

I know it can be nerve-wrecking and the like but have confidence! One way to come out is to start by saying ‘Look, can I talk to you about something?’ or ‘I have something important to tell you.’ Once you have their attention with that, proceed to explain that you’re not straight, you’re Pansexual. Of course you might expect them to question you about it due to many others not knowing what Pansexual is — But explain it along the lines of ’ Pansexual is a gender-blind love. You can be male, female, trandgender or no gender. Gender has nothign to do with who I fall for.’ 

Bi/ gay. Pretty talented in the arts and music really academic. She likes her music and drama. She's usually to caught up in her own world to care about propel out side it. She has her "friends" like me and her friends like her ex Harry (my ex crush) and Frances (her ex crush)

Music is a wonderful thing to use for flirting. Well, in my opinion it is. And you’re friends right now so that’s a good thing. Ask her to hang out with you from time to time. Talk about music like favorite bands, favorite genres and so on. Also be sure to just be yourself no matter what. That’s the most important thing.

Oh and once you know some favorite bands and such of hers, possibly buy her a few CD’s for a random gift or Birthday/Christmas gift!


Well how would you like me to help? What type of girl is she? What does she like? What’s her sexuality?

Hi um... Well I'm about to come out to my family as a pansexual and I was wondering if perhaps you had any tips. Also if maybe you knew a good way to describe what a pansexual is.

Hello! Well, first off — How well do they take other sexualities? 
For instance, my parents simply do not care. I first came out as Bisexual until I discovered Pansexual. I just up and told them one day ‘Oh, hey. I’m Bisexual!’ They just nodded and accepted it.
Then the day I found Pansexual and all, I came out as Pansexual.
Heck, me and my dad even look at hot girls on the television together and out in public.

If they don’t take other sexualities well, then you’d probably need to take it a bit easier than simply saying ‘Oh hey, I’m Pansexual!’
Perhaps ask kindly if you can tell them ‘something’. 

And here’s how I usually describe Pansexual::~
Pansexual means I don’t care about the gender. They can be male, female, transgender, no gender — I don’t care. They can even be an it. It’s the personality and the person I fall for, not their gender. I simply do NOT care about gender at ALL.

Kinda short, sweet and simple there. c: